我想我开始明白
社会
为什么会让我们
渐渐地忘了善良
渐渐地变得冷漠

好心办坏事
虽然是善意
可有时候最后把自己弄得里外不是人

我也好像开始理解
那些看似没有脾气的人

他们不是被社会驯服了
只是学会了如何调节自己的心态
因为他们知道
生气和争论
除了节外生枝
并不会给他们带来更好的结果

有时候生活会逼着你长大
让你面对一些你并不想面对的事情
虽然磕磕碰碰的会有点疼
可伤是会好的


-雪-

那些曾经我们愤愤不平的事
现在发现
对于不重要的人
无论谁对谁错
如果能够用一句话或是道歉带过
那就这样吧
不需要再争论些什么

不用太在乎对错
因为世界本来就没有绝对的对错
一切都只是视角不同
只要不触及自己的原则
其实真的没有什么


-雪-

Remember this moment

Life has never stop giving me surprises and I'm thankful for all that have happened. Remember this moment and be brave to face all the upcoming challenges.

A note for the future me:

Hello there!

I hope you are doing well and enjoying what you are doing right now.

Just in case you are feeling down and discouraged, I want to remind you about this moment, when you have been brave and strong.

Today is the 27th of March 2017.

It's the day when you presented in the Psychology conference.

I am sure you'll remember how frightened you were in public speaking and those moments when you stutter even for the simplest thing like asking questions during lecture. Speaking in public is potentially the last thing you want to do in your life.

But today, you committed yourself to present your dissertation in a conference. You made it to the conference and you challenged yourself for that one thing that you have been haunted for years.

Not only that you've challenged your limit, you even won the best prize!

So, I just want to tell you, if you are again facing a dilemma, thinking twice whether you should try something that you are fear of. GO! Try it. You will never know how things will turn out until you have tried it.

Remember this moment. Be brave.

Yours truly,

KY.

Feel free to take a break, just remember to come back.

There are so many times that I've complained about my life, about the hardship that I'm struggling through. I cried, I screamed and I wanted to give up. I really wanted to, just leave everything behind.
But I look around me, there are so many people, who are struggling to survive. With every single breath they have, they are fighting for the next breath. Then, I look at those, whom I believe are successful and happy. They do not stop working, in fact, they work harder than anyone else.

If those who are less fortunate did not give up, how could I stop trying?
If those who are already successful keep working, who am I to say that I've worked hard enough?

Sometimes I wonder, do we exaggerate how much pain we have suffered through to feel good about ourselves later when we overcame it? But let's think about it again, whether or not there is an exaggeration, the struggle is real, at least at the moment you're going through it.

So let's put aside how painful we feel or how we stand in comparison to others. Just remind yourself that no challenge is undefeatable. You just have to try harder, or try some other. It's either because you have not work hard enough, or because you have been working the wrong way round.

If you feel tired, helpless or even depress. It is okay, we all feel that at some point of our life.
Feel free to take a break, just remember to come back.


KY.